Want To Be Peaceful Like A #Dove

Hi everyone

Do you agree? The longer we live the less friends we have.

May be its not to some. To the young people they won't know because they have more years to go through. By the time they are old the situations may change,people's attitude may be different.

Oldies might agree but may be not 100%.

Why I say so? Think about it. When you were in school, years and years ago you had the whole class your friends. 30? 40? You may fight but you were still friends. Where are they now?

Life can't be boring when you fight

When you were working the whole department that is your colleagues all were your friends. There may be office politics and juicy gossips but you took it as part of office life. They were still your company. You may only have a few on your WhatsApp now.

Gossipping is one form of pastime

After retirement you may find yourself alone among so many people. Silence in the noise.

Flower show - watch in silence

The point is we have to conform in order to be in the group, whatever group that is, you would be surrounded by people and they then may take you as their friend. Right?

In the group...

Whatever group you are in whether it is physical or cyber let it be good and positive to your lives. No point having friends but it is making your lives stressed out.

Good grouping...

A group of friends on durian hunting

To conform to be in....

But sometimes we don't like to be bothered by the false and pretentious norms and expectations thus we like to be left alone...

You can be yourself and don't have to put on a mask.

To be cool enough to even wear rags to make yourself comfortable...

To have your own space where you can be relaxed with yourself and no one breathing down your neck.

To be free from hawking eyes that can only see your faults.

To be with the like minded to pursue common hobbies and interests.

To leave you not to be disturbed with your flow of ideas and words for your blog post  hehehe....

As they say no man is an island. One needs to have friends...

Making friend isn't easy....

Some are suspicious of you...

Not in agreement sometimes..

A friend to keep company...

A friend a confidant....

But need to be alone sometimes to be at peace with oneself....

Cheer up...

bye....